Evils of late marriage for women...
Medically a lady is mature as soon as menstruation start, most women start menstruation by the age of 11,12,13, 14 up to 18years if any lady fail to menstruate by the age of 18years that's abnormality is a disease note it... But 11 to 18years is still acceptable... Now what do we mean by menstruation is that every months every lady will release an egg from ''ovary '' ovary is house of egg in a woman the egg that become baby in the future&the number of egg in the ovary is limited it cannot be increase so every months when a lady start to menstruate will release an egg once a lady/woman release an egg you menstruate and once that egg waited like 72hours in any woman system and there is no sperm to fertilise it, it comes along with menstral blood so is wasted, but that is minus one from the counts in the ovary, so if you now start counting it that means a lady loss egg from age of 11years like that... 12eggs in a year another year another loss another 12eggs and so on. The pattern of eggs in a woman are in three faces.. just like any fruit pass through 3 faces: First face- Unripe face not good to eat. Second face- Ripe face very good to eat best time to eat. Third face- bad face.. This is similar to the faces of egg that will release in a woman as a woman develop..We have some eggs that will release in a woman in the first face is time when a woman start menstruate up to 18years, so from 11 to 18years is the first face of egg these are the eggs that can be liken to unripe egg like unripe fruit, once a woman reach age of 18years this is second face of egg that second face is between 18 and 24years these are best form of eggs that a woman release in her life they are best in quality, they are best in fertility potential, best in everything you can be think of, that is best egg it is the egg when any sperm hit it will become fertilise and develop baby immediately it doesnt fail because it is very very good.. So the third face is the last stage age of 24years and above this is when the bad eggs will be coming up... So it is be now agree that if any woman what to be very fertile in her life the best time to start that fertility period and that dnt want to stress herself go around before he give to birth the best time is age of 18years and 24years so marry in that age range is worldwide acceptable dear sisters 24years upward they are facing risk of infertility what am saying is not that every 24years will necessarily face risk of infertility but majority of infertility cases common among those who are 25years over you rarely find someone who marry within 18 and 24years facing problem of infertility except if she has aborted or using bad drugs or something like that but ordinarily naturally they are not likely to suffer infertility.... So that is position of age... There is a programme show on NTA nationwide in Nigeria title the programme NTA live sometimes ago, that particular day they base their discuss on health and they discuss on topic ''The reason why infertility increasing in Nigeria'' they invited three foreign doctors from England who specialise on treatment of infertility and they invited one doctor in Nigeria those doctors invited from england has been practicing in Nigeria for long they has seen so many cases like that no single muslim among them at the end of the programme all of them concluded that the most common reason why infertility is increasing in Nigeria is that most ladies/women in Nigeria they don't marry at right/normal time they marry very late they marry @the age of 25years above and there were even advising the public in the programmed that what they are suspected as the cause of it is because of their education that most parent insist the their children must finish their education before they get marry they now advising them that they are toying with their children future is better to let them get marry when they are in the school when they are in best age range to produce to not face risk of infertility than delaying them till when their fertility potential will be low..
This is conclusion from non-muslim.. Dear sisters don't put yourself in unnecessary risk.. Don't allow yourself to problem of infertility people are in it today many of them loss their iman because they are looking for ways to give to birth in their life to have children... Some with full hijab/niqab remove it and later go to church, alfa onijalabi/babalawo, herbalist place some go to osun osogbo and many shirk places, the place that cannot earn them any good but they has loss their iman.. May ALLAH will not try you with problem of infertility. Dear sister don't put yourself to unnecessary trier this is consequence of marry lately. Another problem and effect of marry lately on our health particularly we ladies/women is problem of fibroid you might have been hearing about fibroid fibroid fibroid fibroid one of the major reason why women/ ladies has fibroid is simply because they don't get pregnant very early if your womb is empty for long fibroid will begin to grow that is the rule hmmm if your womb is empty for long you are more than 24, 25 or 26years no pregnancy insteady of your womb to be empty naturally fibroid will begin to grow fibroid
many women use to complain about ''oyun iju'' in yoruba is nothing but fibroid'' that's why you find most that has fibroid among ladies/women that are more than 25years of age and you will see most that has fibroid most time people use this local and traditional of medicine to solve problem of fibroid many of them they don't work the most reliable treatment for fibroid is to remove it operate it if you don't operate fibroid it can cause infertility for many reasons it can block where the tube joint with the womb it may not let the sperm reach the womb and fibroid maybe embedded within the uterus that any pregnancy that's about to occur attach to the womb they sit to the fibroid and fibroid push them out..
So there are many ways fibroid can cause problem.. But what lead to fibroid when you are delay to get pregnant on time and not only that the problem of breast cancer is another reason why late marriage is very dangerous because of those that have tendency to develop breast cancer i pray ALLAH will not inflict anyone of you with breast cancer is a very deadly disease it doesnt have cure because breast cancer have four stages: stage 1,2,3and 4.. As they use to say medically stage one and two are curable and the cure for it is that they will remove the breast is not a matter of drug they will remove the breast but stage 3 and 4 even if they remove the breast it doesnt make any difference so many women have tendency because breast cancer is hereditary there are some chromosome in the body from genetic material within the system can make
somebody prone to breast cancer in the future so early marriage has been found to be a very potent preventive measure against breast cancer very potent anything or any statement i tell you here you can confirm it from any doctor or search on internet or anywhere am telling what is authentic as much as possible today they have agreed in the medical world that early marriage is a potent preventive measure against breast cancer and there are many wonderful explanation to it even early marriage alone still remain other two all the three we going to appreciate how islam recommended all the three and how the three are potential preventive measure against breast cancer what are those three:--1-
There is hormone called oestrogen in the system of a woman this hormone is responsible for menstruation if this hormone attack the breast of any woman that has the tendency in the system to develop breast cancer the cancer will start grow is the hormone that stimulate the growth of that cancer but if you have the tendency the hormone will not do anything to your breast which nobody knows except ALLAH you don't know maybe you have the tendency or not.. The only technologically they are doing now is what they call mamography breast screening they only viewing the breast if cancer is likely to grow in the breast but can not see if there is tendency for you to develop it in the system.. So if anybody have tendency to grow breast cancer the omone is what it stimulate breast cancer as it attack the breast it start grow breast cancer that is how it start develop. We now sat down that the only way this breast cancer can be prevented from growing it to create a situation for that woman a situation that will not let that woman has oestrogen in her system that is the only way as soon as the oestrogen is the system will grow breast cancer the only solution is that that woman should not have oestrogen and there is no injection to surpress that oestrogen so we must find a natural way of making a woman free of oestrogen we now start analysing ostrogen is responsible for menstruation if there is no menstruation there can no be oestrogen so what are the natural way by which a woman may not menstruate..The first one is pregnancy if a woman is pregnant for that nine month the woman will not menstrate if you see any woman say i am pregnant and menstrating is not possible but to a layman like some people is possible but to medical men is not possible because they work with science they read things with science but if happen a woman is pregnant and still menstrate that means the pregnancy is trying to get aborted so it got threating this month is stop another month it stop you will now counting it as menstruation is never a menstruation now for 9 months during pregnancy the oestrogen will not occur in a woman that is first natural way for nine months the woman will be free of oestrogen.
Secondly another natural way that a woman will be free of oestrogen is breastfeeding particularly if woman breastfeed during night there are so many case when a woman breast for 1and half years above and was not menstruate at all it depend how serious is the woman breastfeed if you are very aggressive in breastfeeding in 2 years you use to breastfeed you may not menstruate that means for that two years the woman will be free of oestrogen this is the formular let the woman get marry as early as possible 18 years lately to 24 years that kind of lady will be very fertile She is likely to get pregnant as that particularly month let assume she got pregnant as the particularly month for nine months she will be free of oestrogen after nine months immediately she delievere she start breastfeeding let say for two years she will also free of oestrogen so that is 3 years she will be free of oestrogen before another 3years she got another pregnant is that not a formular now another pregnant for 9months she is free of oestrogen another 2years for breastfeeding she is free of ostrogen before another 2years she got another pregnant and she is not a type of lady use to say four children is enough for my family she believe in the ideology of islam that says muslim must has many children as our prophet Muhammad ''may peace and blessings of ALLAH be upon him'' said ''get marry to women that you will love and that will produce many children they will be very prolific in term of fertilization if a women believes in that it means every three three years she is having children and she continue like that maybe 6, 7 or 8 chilren before the completion of that 8 children she will have approach menopause after menopause no more oestrogen which religion preaches the best formular which religion preaches early marriage is islam which religion preaches breastfeeding for 2years islam which religion preaches having many children ISLAM Takbeer, so let put islam first before any other thing ... But most of our parent and ladies/women go with western culture... May ALLAH be with us and guide us to the right path..
