TWO THINGS THAT HAVE NO BENEFIT

Two things that have no benefit
1. Love that doesn"t end up in marriage.
2. Marriage without love

Two things that entrench love
1. Good habits
2. Honesty

Two things that destroy a man
1. Living a fake life
2. Lack of focus

Two things that destroy a woman
1. Love for materialism
2. Imitation

Two things that destroy friendship
1.Lies
2. Backbiting or distrust

Two things that enhance charisma
1. Trustworthiness
2. Steadfastness in Islam

Two things that bring about misery
1. Disrespect for elders
2. False accusation

Two things that bring about happiness
1.Doing good deeds
2. Patience

Two things that brings one close to Allah
1.Reading the Holy Qur"an
2. Abiding by Allahs instructions

Two things that makes shaytan to keep away from one
1.Al azkar
2. Avoiding selfishness

Two that make Ibadat to be accepted
1. Tauheed
2. Ikhlass

Two things that Allah (swa) loves.
1.Ihsan
2. Ma'aruf

Two reasons why I sent this message to you
1. Because You are a Muslim
2.Because I love Islam

Two things I want you to do after you hv read this message
1. Use, work and adhere to this message
2. Send the message to your fellow Muslims.

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PSYCHOLOGY OF ANGER

Psychology of Anger#

I love this and I thought of sharing it with you.

A professor while teaching, asked his students.

Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?

The students thought for awhile. One said, because we lose our calm. But the professor asked again, why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?

Why do you shout at a person when you are angry?

The students gave some answers but none satisfied the professor.

Finally, he explained, "when two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their heart psychologically. To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will shout to hear each other through that great distance.

Then the professor asked,'' what happens when two people fall in love?

They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their heart are psychologically close. The distance between them is very close.
The professor continued, "when they love each other even more, what happens?

They don't speak, they only whisper and they even get closer to each other in their love.

Finally, they even need not to whisper, they only look at each other and that's all... so next time you shout on a loved one know that you are creating distance between your heart and that person's heart.

Please share with as many friends as you can. You
may be healing a hot tempered person today...

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